My brother and his wife haven't been physically intimate in over a year and he confided in me but asked me not to tell anyone including my spouse and now family dinners feel weird because I'm keeping this secret that affects how I see their whole relationship.
More people experience this than they realize.
One person's trust creates another's burden, while the secret-keeper struggles between loyalty to the confidant and authenticity in their other relationships.
“Where Are You with The Desire Gap in Partnership?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.