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Scenario

When family members share intimate secrets that create relationship tension

My brother and his wife haven't been physically intimate in over a year and he confided in me but asked me not to tell anyone including my spouse and now family dinners feel weird because I'm keeping this secret that affects how I see their whole relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

One person's trust creates another's burden, while the secret-keeper struggles between loyalty to the confidant and authenticity in their other relationships.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Desire Gap in Partnership?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.