Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings disagree about how to love a difficult parent

My brother and I are both trying to figure out how to love our difficult father as he gets older, but we have completely different approaches — I want to maintain boundaries while my brother wants to keep trying for connection. Our different ways of loving Dad are starting to divide us from each other.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are discovering that love can take incompatible forms even between people who share the same painful history.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Examined Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.