My brother and I are co-executors of our dad's estate and we keep having these brutal fights about what he 'would have wanted' — but really we're fighting about who was the better son and who deserves what. We can't even get through a phone call about selling the house without one of us hanging up.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief and guilt are masquerading as practical disagreements, turning necessary decisions into contests of worthiness.
“Where Are You with Long-distance love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.