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When siblings become co-executors and old wounds resurface

My brother and I are co-executors of our mom's estate and we keep having these tense conversations where we're supposedly talking about her things but really relitigating thirty years of who she loved more. Every decision feels like it's about something else entirely.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Practical responsibilities become battlegrounds for unresolved emotional territories between people who share a history.

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