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Scenario

When siblings bond over shared feelings of inadequacy

My brother and I both feel like disappointments to our parents in different ways and we've started bonding over it, but now I'm worried we're just reinforcing each other's sense of not being good enough instead of actually supporting each other. Our conversations have become these sessions where we validate each other's failures.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes mutual understanding can become mutual limitation when it centers on unworthiness.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-Worth in Relationship Context?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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