My brother and I both feel responsible for keeping our family traditions alive now that our grandparents are gone, but he wants to host everything at his house with his wife's rules, and I feel like we're losing the actual spirit of what we're trying to preserve.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to honor what came before meets the reality of who they are becoming, and tradition must bend or break.
“Where Are You with Family Claims on Love and Partnership?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.