My brother and I both lost spouses young and we've been each other's main support, but he's found peace through accepting that 'everything happens for a reason' while that phrase makes me want to scream, and lately we can barely talk.
More people experience this than they realize.
The same type of loss is generating opposite spiritual responses that are threatening the very relationship that provides survival.
“Where Are You with The teacher of grief — every tradition's view?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.