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Scenario

When siblings can't agree on caring for aging parents

My brother and I both promised our mom we'd take care of dad after her stroke, but we keep undermining each other's decisions and dad is getting caught in the middle. We're both trying to do right by him but we can't seem to coordinate without one of us feeling like the other is being controlling.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love for the same person can create competing forms of devotion that wound rather than heal.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love & Mental Health?”

Peri

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