My brother and I have been the primary caregivers for our mom since dad died, and we're both burning out but in completely different ways — he gets angry and I shut down — and we can't figure out how to help each other while we're helping her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are drowning separately in the same deep water.
“Where Are You with Complicated grief — prolonged grief disorder?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.