My brother and I inherited our childhood home when our dad died and we can't agree on whether to sell it or keep it, but really we're having completely different relationships with grief and memory and neither of us knows how to say that out loud.
More people experience this than they realize.
A house holds two different versions of the same history, and practical decisions become impossible when they require reconciling different ways of loving the dead.
“Where Are You with Love and mental illness?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.