My brother and I inherited our dad's house together and we both have strong feelings about what to do with it, but we also both feel guilty about having strong feelings about it, so we keep having the same circular conversation without deciding anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief and practicality can become entangled in ways that make both impossible to address clearly.
“Where Are You with Listening in love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.