My brother and I inherited our dad's house together and we can't agree on whether to sell it or keep it in the family, but really we're fighting about completely different relationships we each had with dad. Every conversation about the house turns into this painful excavation of who dad loved more or understood better.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared inheritance often reveals the unequal ways love was distributed and received within families.
“Where Are You with Grief for lost homeland — diaspora mourning?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.