My brother and I inherited our family home together when our parents died and we can't agree on what to do with it — he wants to sell and split the money while I want to keep it in the family even though neither of us can afford to buy the other out. We're both grieving and this house decision is bringing up everything about how differently we experienced growing up there.
More people experience this than they realize.
The same place can hold completely different meanings for people who lived there together, and practical decisions become impossible when they're really about competing versions of family history.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.