My brother and I inherited our parents' house and we both have strong feelings about what to do with it but we keep having surface-level discussions about logistics when really we're grieving completely differently.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're trying to make practical decisions about something that holds profound emotional meaning for both of you in different ways.
“Where Are You with Autonomy and Togetherness?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.