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When friend groups drift into superficial connection without acknowledgment

My closest college friends and I have a group chat that used to be daily check-ins and inside jokes, but now it's mostly just birthday messages and major life announcements. We all feel it happening but no one wants to be the one to say 'remember when we used to actually talk' because what if everyone else is fine with how things are now.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimacy is being lost to the entropy of adult life, but no one wants to risk vulnerability by admitting they miss what used to be.

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