My closest friend group all grew up watching different versions of dysfunctional marriages and now we're all coupled up, we keep giving each other advice that's basically just our own family trauma dressed up as wisdom. We love each other but we're not actually helping each other build healthy relationships.
More people experience this than they realize.
Individual family legacies are creating collective blind spots that masquerade as support.
“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.