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How to address superficial connection in long-distance friendships

My closest friend group from college stays in touch through a group chat but lately it feels like we're all performing our lives for each other instead of actually connecting, and I want to say something but I'm worried I'll sound dramatic or kill the only consistent contact we have.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The tools meant to preserve intimacy across distance have become the very barriers that prevent it.

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