My closest friend has been going through a really dark depression for the past year and I've been trying to be supportive, but I'm starting to feel resentful because our friendship has become entirely about their crisis and my own struggles never get any space.
More people experience this than they realize.
The mathematics of care have become unbalanced, and we're both afraid to name what we've lost.
“Where Are You with Polyamory and non-monogamy examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.