My closest friend has been going through a really hard divorce and I want to support her but she keeps asking me to take sides against her ex who I also consider a friend, and I don't know how to be loyal to her without betraying my own sense of what's fair.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love's endings can demand we choose loyalties that fracture our own integrity.
“Where Are You with Continuing bonds — ongoing relationship with the deceased?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.