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Scenario

When friends violate unspoken relationship boundaries

My closest friend started dating my ex-boyfriend three months after we broke up, and she never talked to me about it first, just started posting pictures with him, and now she's acting like nothing has changed between us while I feel completely betrayed by both of them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loyalty assumes shared understanding of boundaries that may never have been explicitly negotiated.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trust and Fidelity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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