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Scenario

When close friendships outgrow their original context

My college roommate and I lived together for four years and thought we'd be friends forever, but we've been post-graduation adults for two years now and every time we try to hang out it feels forced and sad, like we're both trying to resurrect something that maybe just belonged to who we used to be.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are mourning the end of an intimacy while simultaneously trying to create a new one, without acknowledging that both things are happening.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Patterns You Bring to Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.