My college roommates and I have stayed close for fifteen years, but one of us is going through a really dark time and the rest of us don't know how to help without enabling, and we're all handling it differently which is causing tension in the whole group.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love can become paralyzed when good people disagree about what helping actually means.
“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.