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How fathers and adult children can break old communication patterns

My dad and I have been trying to repair our relationship after years of distance, and we're both making an effort but we keep falling into these old patterns where he gives advice I don't want and I shut down, and neither of us knows how to break the cycle.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people reaching toward each other keep finding their hands shaped by all the old ways of missing each other.

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