My friend group all seems to have their lives figured out and I keep canceling plans because I feel like I have nothing interesting to contribute anymore. They keep reaching out but I can tell they're getting tired of my flakiness and I don't know how to explain that I'm avoiding them because I feel boring.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of being found lacking can create the very distance that confirms the fear.
“Where Are You with Self-Worth in Relationship Context?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.