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Scenario

When partners develop feelings for the same person

My girlfriend and I are both queer and we've realized we're attracted to the same person in our friend group, but instead of it bringing us together it's making us both feel insecure and competitive in ways we've never experienced before.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are learning that shared desire can create unexpected territories of jealousy even within love that seemed secure.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Unrequited Love and Longing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.