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When partners develop feelings for the same person

My girlfriend and I are both queer and we've realized we're attracted to the same person in our friend group, but instead of it bringing us together it's making us both feel insecure and competitive in ways we've never experienced before.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are learning that shared desire can create unexpected territories of jealousy even within love that seemed secure.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Unrequited Love and Longing?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.