My girlfriend and I are seventeen and we've been together for two years, which feels like forever and also like nothing, and we're both terrified that going to different colleges will end everything but also terrified that planning our whole futures around each other is completely insane. We keep having the same circular conversation about next year without ever actually deciding anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're learning that loving someone deeply doesn't automatically resolve the tension between individual growth and shared commitment.
“Where Are You with Love in adolescence?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.