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Scenario

When couples are both ambivalent about having children

My husband and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we're both genuinely ambivalent — not disagreeing, just both uncertain — and the indecision itself is starting to strain our relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared uncertainty about a life-defining decision can become its own source of distance if partners don't know how to be uncertain together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief waves — the non-linear experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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