My husband and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we're both genuinely ambivalent — not disagreeing, just both uncertain — and the indecision itself is starting to strain our relationship.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared uncertainty about a life-defining decision can become its own source of distance if partners don't know how to be uncertain together.
“Where Are You with Grief waves — the non-linear experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.