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Scenario

When couples face major life decisions and competing dreams

My husband and I are trying to decide whether to move across the country for his dream job, and we've both started pretending we're more okay with either outcome than we actually are. I can feel us both performing certainty we don't have because we love each other too much to be the reason the other person doesn't get what they want.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes love makes us hide our truest needs from those we love most.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love & Disability?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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