My husband and I are trying to recover from his affair and we're both working hard but I keep catching myself performing forgiveness instead of actually feeling it. We don't know how to tell the difference between healing and just getting better at pretending everything is okay.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're learning that genuine forgiveness and repair can't be rushed or performed, only lived into slowly.
“Where Are You with The examined love life — what it means to love well?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.