My husband and I are trying to recover from his affair and we're both working hard but I keep catching myself performing forgiveness instead of actually feeling it. We don't know how to tell the difference between healing and just getting better at pretending everything is okay.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're learning that genuine forgiveness and repair can't be rushed or performed, only lived into slowly.
“Where Are You with The examined love life — what it means to love well?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.