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When couples want the same thing but are afraid to examine why they're hesitating

My husband and I both want another child but we're also both terrified about money, about our marriage, about everything really, and we keep having the same surface-level conversations without ever getting to what we're actually afraid of.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Desire and fear are braided so tightly together that neither person can find solid ground for an honest conversation.

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