My husband and I both want another child but we're realizing we want it for completely different reasons, and those reasons feel like they're about fixing different things in our marriage.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared desires can mask the deepest incompatibilities, especially when those desires carry the weight of unspoken repair.
“Where Are You with Polyamory & Non-Monogamy?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.