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Scenario

When couples become efficient strangers

My husband and I both work demanding jobs and we've gotten into this pattern where we're like efficient roommates — we handle the logistics of our life really well but we barely talk about anything that matters anymore, and I think we're both scared that if we stop being busy we'll realize there's nothing left underneath.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have become so good at managing their shared life that they've forgotten how to share their inner lives.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Obsessive love and jealousy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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