My husband and I both work demanding jobs and we've gotten into this pattern where we're like efficient roommates — we handle the logistics of our life really well but we barely talk about anything that matters anymore, and I think we're both scared that if we stop being busy we'll realize there's nothing left underneath.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people have become so good at managing their shared life that they've forgotten how to share their inner lives.
“Where Are You with Obsessive love and jealousy?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.