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Scenario

When couples struggle to love each other through personal growth and change

My husband and I can see we're both changing as we get older — he's becoming more introverted while I'm craving more connection — and we keep trying to love each other the way we used to instead of figuring out who we're becoming together. We're both holding onto a version of our relationship that might not exist anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are loving someone who is becoming someone else, while you too are changing, and the old ways of loving no longer fit.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Examined Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.