My husband and I can see we're both changing as we get older — he's becoming more introverted while I'm craving more connection — and we keep trying to love each other the way we used to instead of figuring out who we're becoming together. We're both holding onto a version of our relationship that might not exist anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are loving someone who is becoming someone else, while you too are changing, and the old ways of loving no longer fit.
“Where Are You with The Examined Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.