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Scenario

When financial conflicts reveal deeper relationship issues

My husband and I have been fighting about money for years but it's never really about money - it's about control and fear and how we were both raised. We keep having surface arguments instead of talking about what's underneath.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Money becomes the language couples use to speak about power, safety, and worthiness when they lack words for those more frightening conversations.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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