My husband and I have been fighting about money for years but it's never really about money - it's about control and fear and how we were both raised. We keep having surface arguments instead of talking about what's underneath.
More people experience this than they realize.
Money becomes the language couples use to speak about power, safety, and worthiness when they lack words for those more frightening conversations.
“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.