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Scenario

When couples disagree about whether love is emotion or action

My husband and I have been having the same fight for months about whether love is something you feel or something you do, and it's affecting every interaction we have. When he does loving things without the feeling behind it, I feel manipulated; when I feel love but don't show it his way, he feels unloved.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their fundamental definitions of love are incompatible in daily practice.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.