My husband and I have been keeping separate finances since he made some investments without telling me two years ago, and it's helped us avoid fighting about money but it's also made us feel like roommates who happen to be married.
More people experience this than they realize.
Protective boundaries can become barriers that solve the immediate problem while creating deeper disconnection.
“Where Are You with Trust — building and repairing?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.