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Scenario

When long-term couples lose physical intimacy

My husband and I have been married fifteen years and our sex life has basically disappeared over the past two years — not because we don't love each other but because we're both too tired and stressed and neither of us knows how to bring it up without making it feel like pressure or criticism. We just keep not talking about the fact that we're not connecting physically anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Desire withholds itself not from lack of love but from too much tenderness to risk.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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