Periagoge
Scenario

When long-term couples recognize they've grown apart but fear addressing it

My husband and I have been married for twelve years and we love each other but we've become these parallel people who share a house and kids but not much else, and we both know it but talking about it feels like opening a door we might not be able to close.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're both protecting a marriage that might not exist anymore, afraid that honesty will destroy what little you have left.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.