My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for three years and the process has made us both so focused on conception that we've stopped having sex that isn't about making a baby, and now we're grieving not just the babies we haven't had but also the intimacy we used to share.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are mourning multiple losses simultaneously while still holding hope, and the very trying has transformed the connection you're trying to create life from.
“Where Are You with Grief groups and communities?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.