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When fertility struggles consume a couple's entire relationship

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for three years and we've started relating to each other like project managers instead of lovers. Every conversation feels like it's about timing or treatments or hope or disappointment, and we don't remember how to just be together anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The very thing you're trying to create together is slowly destroying what you already have together.

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