My husband and I keep being drawn to the same type of couples for friendship — people who seem to have their lives together but then slowly reveal they're falling apart — and we realize we might be seeking out relationships where we get to be the stable ones because it's easier than examining what's actually unstable in us.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're beginning to see that your relational choices reveal something about what you're avoiding in yourselves.
“Where Are You with Patterns in who we love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.