Periagoge
Scenario

When couples keep choosing the same types of people to get close to

My husband and I keep being drawn to the same type of couples for friendship — people who seem to have their lives together but then slowly reveal they're falling apart — and we realize we might be seeking out relationships where we get to be the stable ones because it's easier than examining what's actually unstable in us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're beginning to see that your relational choices reveal something about what you're avoiding in yourselves.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Patterns in who we love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.