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Scenario

When couples fight about money but it's really about deeper fears

My husband and I keep having the same fight about money but underneath it I think we're really fighting about control and fear and neither of us wants to admit we're both scared about our future. We just keep recycling the surface stuff.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The real conversation lives beneath the recurring argument, waiting for someone to risk going there first.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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