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When couples grieve differently and question the nature of love for what was lost

My husband and I lost our first pregnancy six months ago and we're both struggling with whether the love we felt for that potential life was 'real' or just projection. We can't seem to talk about it without one of us shutting down because we're grieving such different versions of what love means.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people must navigate how loss reshapes their understanding of love while honoring each other's different ways of meaning-making.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

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