My husband had an emotional affair two years ago and we've done therapy and rebuilt intimacy but I still check his phone when he's in the shower and he knows I do it and we both pretend it's normal now. We're stuck in this exhausting dance where we're both trying so hard to prove we trust each other that we can't admit we don't yet.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are performing recovery rather than living it, trapped between the appearance of healing and the reality of lingering betrayal.
“Where Are You with Trust and Fidelity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.