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When spouses navigate honesty about outside attraction

My husband has developed feelings for a coworker and he told me about it because he wanted to be honest, but now we're both drowning—he feels guilty for feeling it and I feel guilty for being devastated when he's trying to do the right thing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that transparency about desire can create its own kind of suffering, even when it comes from love.

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