My husband wants to perform all thirteen days of shraddha for his mother exactly as his family did generations ago, but I think some adaptations make sense for our life here, and we're stuck between honoring tradition and being practical about what we can actually sustain.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love each other are discovering that grief makes visible all the places where their spiritual intuitions diverge.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
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