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Scenario

When couples disagree about how strictly to follow traditional shraddha rituals

My husband wants to perform all thirteen days of shraddha for his mother exactly as his family did generations ago, but I think some adaptations make sense for our life here, and we're stuck between honoring tradition and being practical about what we can actually sustain.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love each other are discovering that grief makes visible all the places where their spiritual intuitions diverge.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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