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When couples can't align on major life decisions

My husband wants to try for another baby and I'm not sure I do, but we keep having the same circular conversation where we both try to convince the other instead of actually understanding what this means for us. We're both scared of what happens if we can't agree.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Some conversations require moving from persuasion to a deeper reckoning with what each person needs and fears.

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