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Scenario

How to navigate mismatched desire for sexual reconnection

My husband wants to work on our dead bedroom but I feel like I'm drowning every time he brings it up because I want it too but my body just won't cooperate anymore. We love each other but we're stuck in this cycle where his hope makes me feel more broken and my withdrawal makes him feel more rejected.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love and longing are present but expressed in ways that inadvertently wound each other, creating a painful feedback loop of hope and despair.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexlessness in Relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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