Periagoge
Scenario

When mothers and adult children want a new dynamic but keep reverting to old patterns

My mom and I are both trying to figure out how to have a relationship now that I'm an adult, but we keep falling back into old patterns where she gives advice I don't want and I get defensive, and neither of us knows how to break the cycle.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are trying to create a relationship that neither of them has a template for, while muscle memory pulls them backward.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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