My mom and I have spent two years fighting about her drinking and we're both so entrenched in our positions that we can't see each other anymore — just the problem. I love her and I think she loves me but we've forgotten how to be in the same room without it becoming about this.
More people experience this than they realize.
The thing you're fighting about has become bigger than the love you're fighting for.
“Where Are You with Grief and gratitude — the paradox?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.